Who else would love to be better in bed? Do you wonder if you are truly satisfying her sexually, and what you might be able to do better? Do you sometimes lie awake wondering if she’s enjoying sex as much as you do, and if not… why not? If you are anything like the hundreds of thousands of men who feel frustrated and uncertain about what women REALLY want from sex, this article was written with you in mind! Curious to learn more? Continue reading as we take a closer look at a few fast facts, and simple sexual strategies every man really ought to know!
Win #1: The Female Sexual Response Cycle is Far Different Than Yours
Said more simply? Time is DEFINITELY on her side! It takes a woman about twice as long to climax as it does a man. The typical sexual encounter lasts about 7 minutes from start to finish. Yet, the average woman takes anywhere from 12-20 minutes to achieve orgasm. When the “math” doesn’t add up, it typically points to a man finishing far too fast for her enjoyment, leading to sexual frustration on her side. (even if she won’t admit it – or say it when you ask) The win? Work on your stamina! If you can last longer, she is much more likely to be able to enjoy intercourse as much as you do, and her frustrations will disappear quickly as well!
Win #2: Communication is Critical To Her Climax as Well
Most men that we talk to say that talking during sex is NOT a turn on. True… many men enjoy “dirty talk” in bed, but in terms of real, authentic and intimate conversation? Not nearly as much. On the flip side, many women DO enjoy intimate exchanges during sex. Some women will say that their BRAIN is the ultimate erogenous zone, and if you can stimulate her sense of being cared for, connected to and even loved… her ability to orgasm will go UP dramatically. This doesn’t mean, of course, that we don’t love sex for purely physical reasons as well. But our brains are far more involved in the lovemaking process, and the more you can stimulate that sexy spot between our ears, the more the rest of our bodies will follow!
Win #3: Does Size Matter? Every Body is Different
I watched an online sexual survey the other day where women were asked how important “size” was to sexual satisfaction. One woman said, very loudly, “Go BIG on go home!” Of course everyone around her laughed, and her friends shook their heads in agreement.
The fact is, while that may matter to SOME women, every body is different, and your anatomy does NOT, on it’s own, decide how much, or how little sexual satisfaction you can offer. The key is, find out where HER “erogenous” zones are, and make sure you can hit them.
If you have challenges “reaching” her most sensitive spots during intercourse, increase the amount of foreplay. Or, ask her if there is a better position, which allows you to use what you have, to your highest advantage. (and her utmost enjoyment as well!)
Sex is a much more multi-sensory experience for a woman, than it often is for a man. The more you can acclimate yourself to the way HER body (and mind) operate, the more you’ll make her look forward to sex, and the better you’ll become in bed to boot!